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how_to_interact_with_practical_strangers [2021/03/19 03:39] – created hc9how_to_interact_with_practical_strangers [2021/03/20 23:32] (current) – [Focus on the message.] hc9
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 We see each other through the lens of com. We do not "know" the secret heart and nature of each other. As such, we should keep criticisms focused on the actions and not the person. We see each other through the lens of com. We do not "know" the secret heart and nature of each other. As such, we should keep criticisms focused on the actions and not the person.
  
-Criticizing the person (bad):wliao is stupid and says random things.Criticizing the action (better):wliao is saying a lot of stupid and random things.+  * Criticizing the person (bad): 
 +    * wliao is stupid and says random things. 
 +  * Criticizing the action (better): 
 +    * wliao is saying a lot of stupid and random things.
  
 We should also try to be polite and kind with the words we use. We should also try to be polite and kind with the words we use.
  
-Criticizing the action (even better):wliao, I disagree for these 3 reasons, and we can still be friends.+  * Criticizing the action (even better): 
 +    * wliao, I disagree for these 3 reasons, and we can still be friends.
  
 Sometimes personal remarks will be made, or we interpret a comment to be of a personal nature. Very little can be gained from responding in kind. We should try to overlook these comments and move on. After all, reasonable people can disagree and still be friends. Sometimes personal remarks will be made, or we interpret a comment to be of a personal nature. Very little can be gained from responding in kind. We should try to overlook these comments and move on. After all, reasonable people can disagree and still be friends.
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